What We Pay Attention To

What we pay attention to needs constant examination. What we respond to in real time versus what we respond to later or not at all also needs examination and adjustments and discipline to maintain and evolve. It’s true with news. It’s true with work. It’s true with friends and family.

Some of this is natural and even necessary. But when the balance tips too far—when we’re always responding to what’s immediate and addictive while deferring what’s slow and demanding—we lose our ability to engage with what actually matters. The quick dopamine hit will always crowd out the longer haul work unless we actively push back.

The solution isn’t rigid rules or guilt about how we spend our attention. It’s noticing the imbalance and correcting for it deliberately. Building systems that protect space for harder work. Recognizing that what matters most often requires us to delay or ignore what’s merely urgent or stimulating. The discipline isn’t in perfect execution—it’s in the constant examination and adjustment itself.